Anecdote of Shandong Village Wedding in Jishi
-off. There are several processes such as ordering tea, giving big gifts, choosing a date, and holding a wedding banquet, but weddings have unique national characteristics.
Shili is a tunnel, and five is a local customs. When the Dongxiang people in Jishishan County held their wedding, the mother's family also set up a table for guests. On the wedding day, the sun began to receive Hexi’s neighbors, close relatives of the village, and distant relatives as soon as the flagpole was high. Immediately after receiving the man's wedding guests. Married to the woman’s village, she was welcomed by the road. When the marriage team entered the women's house, the bride cried because she was raised by her parents, who had been working hard to raise her. Now she is "going far away", leaving her parents and younger siblings, she has to cry out in tears. After seeing "in-laws" and exchanging "Saran", the wife’s family invites imams to start school and sits at the table. The groom, best man, uncle or kneeling on the felt at the table or sitting on the stool, the bride is in the room, Imam Gong Ling explained the essentials of marriage in the Koran so that the newlyweds could understand the Islamic regulations on marriage. Ask whether the procedures for the dowry are clear, and then ask whether the new men and women are voluntary. Afterward, the imam negotiated the "Hakabini" money according to the doctrine (in fact, it is to prevent the husband from not abandoning his wife casually in the future, such as the wife's future living security fee when the divorce). At this time, there were more conflicts between the father and brother of the woman, but the man raised less, and the onlookers commented loudly. In the end, the first school imam ruled, and both men and women abide by it. Later, the father of the bride directly called the bridegroom to be married by name: "My daughter X X X hired X X X". The bridegroom replied: "I will accept it." Immediately after the imam solemnly chanted "Nikah" (the marriage testimony), all the people attending the wedding were immersed in a solemn and solemn atmosphere, bowing their heads to listen. After reading "Nikah", the imam sprinkled pre-prepared walnuts, red dates, etc. into the courtyard from the window, and the whole courtyard rushed forward, vying for the walnuts and red dates, which symbolize love and happiness, cheering and laughing.
When the marrying men and horses return, the young people in the village chase the groom and the best man with clods. It is usually a bluff, not a real chase, but fun. The followers and horses ran away with them. They come slowly and go fast, which means that the "married" team will set off later. The bride’s parents stayed at home, and the uncle or elder brother led the family and relatives and friends to send the bride to the man’s house for a banquet. The bride and the "marriage-sending" team rode their mules and horses to a place not far from the man's village and stopped to organize their formation. The bride's horse walked at the front of the queue and was escorted into the village by two capable young men. The man's family had already sent people to the village to wait. When they saw them coming, they went to report, prepared to welcome their relatives, and sent people to set off firecrackers to express their gratitude. The bride and the "marriage-sending" team were seven to eighty meters away from the man's home. Hundreds of men, women, and children joined the road to welcome them, firing cannons, and it was very lively. After dinner, there were lights hung on the eaves. Singers from various towns had already gathered outside the gate and waited. They saw the lights shining brightly. There was a high-voicing singer-style leader. A hundred people walked slowly towards the door after shouting. Singing as they walked: "Congratulations, congratulations, those who didn't take a handful of tea empty congratulations", crowded into the courtyard from the gate in droves. Then go to the courtyard to open the scene and sing the "banquet song", and perform "beat tune" and play folk operas such as "Shepherd Boy Herding Cows" and "Xia Sichuan". Local singers and singers from other villages competed to sing. First, after the singers of the village finished the first song, they sang one sentence: "Brothers sing, please come up with the singing style of Yuanxiang." Just like that, one by one. It was so lively that the chicken cried three times.
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